I Need Counciling

[S A L T]

shit...i lived in a divorced family (No Biggie...lots of divorced families)...but ma Dad getting $5000 a month...and ma mom getting $1000(if that)... i live with mah dad..and mah mom dont make enough money to pay for her house so she always got child support from my dad..but my sister just turned 18 and went off to college..(no more child support for my mom)...and she gotta pay mah sisters way through college..(mah dad is helpin a lil but its not enough cuz now she aint got no child support..she workin mad hard too but my dad still makin decent money..think he would help her?..well i went to my mom's for Thanksgiving Break...she told me my dads filing for Child Support on her for ME now..OMG now she crying to me, that if he goes thru with this (court date - Dec. 9)..that she gunna lose her house, job, everything!! so im bummed now. she crying to me telling me that i have to stop him from doing this and im hooked on stoping him.. so i get back from thanksgiving break and yell at my dad...and i get a verbal punch in the face back and he starts hollarin...he tells me all this shit why he deserves this Child Support even tho we fine on money and she isn't...he told me that she's "Secretly Rich", which i dont believe for one second, and then goes on saying well, they only do child support if she can afford it, if she cant than she dont have to pay it, but she is...so WTF is that?!! .. then he goes saying that she gunna get HALF HIS RETIREMENT MONEY wen he retires...so wen we move off base, we gunna have to invest in a house and have to pay it, while mah dad makes on $1000 a month, putting us on the streets!! .. thats wen i turn 18 too so fuck college, cuz im not getting loans i wont be able to pay off... so my mom still crying to make him stop..and she telling me what a bad guy my dad is, while my dad crying to say why dont you trust me, we're gunna be in deep shit in the next couple years and saying mah mom is a bad person...so wtf do i do...i dont wanna side with either one of my parents... i know you guys thinking right now...MOM, MOM, but trust me, thats not how it goes right now...im so confused...hewww..wtf is going on right now... confused:

[S A L T]

shit...i lived in a divorced family (No Biggie...lots of divorced families)...but ma Dad getting $5000 a month...and ma mom getting $1000(if that)... i live with mah dad..and mah mom dont make enough money to pay for her house so she always got child support from my dad..but my sister just turned 18 and went off to college..(no more child support for my mom)...and she gotta pay mah sisters way through college..(mah dad is helpin a lil but its not enough cuz now she aint got no child support..she workin mad hard too but my dad still makin decent money..think he would help her?..well i went to my mom's for Thanksgiving Break...she told me my dads filing for Child Support on her for ME now..OMG now she crying to me, that if he goes thru with this (court date - Dec. 9)..that she gunna lose her house, job, everything!! so im bummed now. she crying to me telling me that i have to stop him from doing this and im hooked on stoping him.. so i get back from thanksgiving break and yell at my dad...and i get a verbal punch in the face back and he starts hollarin...he tells me all this shit why he deserves this Child Support even tho we fine on money and she isn't...he told me that she's "Secretly Rich", which i dont believe for one second, and then goes on saying well, they only do child support if she can afford it, if she cant than she dont have to pay it, but she is...so WTF is that?!! .. then he goes saying that she gunna get HALF HIS RETIREMENT MONEY wen he retires...so wen we move off base, we gunna have to invest in a house and have to pay it, while mah dad makes on $1000 a month, putting us on the streets!! .. thats wen i turn 18 too so fuck college, cuz im not getting loans i wont be able to pay off... so my mom still crying to make him stop..and she telling me what a bad guy my dad is, while my dad crying to say why dont you trust me, we're gunna be in deep shit in the next couple years and saying mah mom is a bad person...so wtf do i do...i dont wanna side with either one of my parents... i know you guys thinking right now...MOM, MOM, but trust me, thats not how it goes right now...im so confused...hewww..wtf is going on right now... confused:

damn...tough situation..I think your Dad is being a little cruel towards your mom in an effort to get some sort of revenge...My mom used the "secretly rich" thing on me a couple years back..my Pops is far from rich...As fore the child support thing, try team up with your sister to get your parents on the same page so they can work something out, cuz if they don't the courts will, I think they'll both understand if both kids wants the same thing.

damn...tough situation..I think your Dad is being a little cruel towards your mom in an effort to get some sort of revenge...My mom used the "secretly rich" thing on me a couple years back..my Pops is far from rich...As fore the child support thing, try team up with your sister to get your parents on the same page so they can work something out, cuz if they don't the courts will, I think they'll both understand if both kids wants the same thing.

[S A L T]

yeah, thanks man...appreciate the support

[S A L T]

yeah, thanks man...appreciate the support

[dmullz]

Listen, i have some fam problems im not really gonna go into, but best way to not choice a side, and still be semi supportive to both your parents is get ya H.S dimploma, a part time job, once u done with H.S hit up devry or a trade school, itll either be free or next to nothing and get a decent job and do ya own thing, distancing yaself is sometimes the best way to help



you dont need counciling, you need to vent, and make a life plan as gay as it sounds preparing ahead and looking out for yaself can give you the resources to help ya mom and pops or w.e you wnna do

[dmullz]

Listen, i have some fam problems im not really gonna go into, but best way to not choice a side, and still be semi supportive to both your parents is get ya H.S dimploma, a part time job, once u done with H.S hit up devry or a trade school, itll either be free or next to nothing and get a decent job and do ya own thing, distancing yaself is sometimes the best way to help



you dont need counciling, you need to vent, and make a life plan as gay as it sounds preparing ahead and looking out for yaself can give you the resources to help ya mom and pops or w.e you wnna do

[EJT]

pretty much what dmullz said

[EJT]

pretty much what dmullz said

[S A L T]

thanks for the support d, but the I Need Counseling was just i title , i didnt really mean that shit, but on the Real...thanks homie...i really appreciate it..

[S A L T]

thanks for the support d, but the I Need Counseling was just i title , i didnt really mean that shit, but on the Real...thanks homie...i really appreciate it..

[dmullz]

Originally Posted by S T O Y

thanks for the support d, but the I Need Counseling was just i title , i didnt really mean that shit, but on the Real...thanks homie...i really appreciate it..

also i dk if your into cars or motor cycles, but if you are they offer trade schools that you make 55Gs a year which isnt much but its a 2 yr program and all u need is a HS diploma, elevate

[dmullz]

Originally Posted by S T O Y

thanks for the support d, but the I Need Counseling was just i title , i didnt really mean that shit, but on the Real...thanks homie...i really appreciate it..

also i dk if your into cars or motor cycles, but if you are they offer trade schools that you make 55Gs a year which isnt much but its a 2 yr program and all u need is a HS diploma, elevate