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Having a bisexual girlfriend.
So, my girl is bisexual. We've been together for about a month, or so, and she has a girlfriend as well. But, I suppose I'm a bit torn by this. There are positives, of course, I don't have to spend as much time with her, I don't have to be emotionally available. Things like that. But, there are also cons. It hinders her sex drive a bit, exclusivity is less likely. So, I wondered how you guys would handle this situation? Would you let her relationship with her own girlfriend ride, or, would you request a decision regarding exclusivity in the relationship with her yourself?
INB4 ask for a threesome.
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Having a bisexual girlfriend.
So, my girl is bisexual. We've been together for about a month, or so, and she has a girlfriend as well. But, I suppose I'm a bit torn by this. There are positives, of course, I don't have to spend as much time with her, I don't have to be emotionally available. Things like that. But, there are also cons. It hinders her sex drive a bit, exclusivity is less likely. So, I wondered how you guys would handle this situation? Would you let her relationship with her own girlfriend ride, or, would you request a decision regarding exclusivity in the relationship with her yourself?
INB4 ask for a threesome.
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I believe in sexual exclusivity. The idea that you might be able to get a three-some out of the deal later down the line is fanciful, but realistically, it increases your chances of getting an STI when your partner is fucking other people besides you. Who knows who her girlfriend is also fucking? I believe in keeping things simple.
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I believe in sexual exclusivity. The idea that you might be able to get a three-some out of the deal later down the line is fanciful, but realistically, it increases your chances of getting an STI when your partner is fucking other people besides you. Who knows who her girlfriend is also fucking? I believe in keeping things simple.
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Yea id let it ride cause threesomes and its like having two girl friends everyone wins!
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Yea id let it ride cause threesomes and its like having two girl friends everyone wins!
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It doesn't necessarily mean you have two girlfriends. What if her girlfriend isn't attracted to you or only likes girls or you aren't attracted to her cause maybe she's a butch? So this girl is fucking you and her girlfriend on the side, the girlfriend might be fucking other dudes and whatever diseases she gets from them, she'll pass it on to your girlfriend who will pass it on to you. I don't see how this scenario is much different from having a girlfriend who has other boyfriends. Like I said, the idea of banging two chicks is nice, but for me, the idea of sexual exclusivity where you cut out the potential of contracting third-party diseases is even nicer.
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It doesn't necessarily mean you have two girlfriends. What if her girlfriend isn't attracted to you or only likes girls or you aren't attracted to her cause maybe she's a butch? So this girl is fucking you and her girlfriend on the side, the girlfriend might be fucking other dudes and whatever diseases she gets from them, she'll pass it on to your girlfriend who will pass it on to you. I don't see how this scenario is much different from having a girlfriend who has other boyfriends. Like I said, the idea of banging two chicks is nice, but for me, the idea of sexual exclusivity where you cut out the potential of contracting third-party diseases is even nicer.
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I believe in sexual exclusivity. The idea that you might be able to get a three-some out of the deal later down the line is fanciful, but realistically, it increases your chances of getting an STI when your partner is fucking other people besides you. Who knows who her girlfriend is also fucking? I believe in keeping things simple.
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Agreed with this. The fact that you don't know who her gf is fucking would be my biggest concern here. My question though @ Rant is are you dating your girl because she's bisexual or because you actually like her? Does her being bisexual have anything to do w/ you dating her? There's a big difference here
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I believe in sexual exclusivity. The idea that you might be able to get a three-some out of the deal later down the line is fanciful, but realistically, it increases your chances of getting an STI when your partner is fucking other people besides you. Who knows who her girlfriend is also fucking? I believe in keeping things simple.
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Agreed with this. The fact that you don't know who her gf is fucking would be my biggest concern here. My question though @ Rant is are you dating your girl because she's bisexual or because you actually like her? Does her being bisexual have anything to do w/ you dating her? There's a big difference here
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Perfect point @ NOBLE the last thing you wanna do during a three some is suck another dudes cum out her box, sick right? Well its a chance you taking
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The real question is...why would you be sucking another dudes cum out of her box? Are you under the assumption the chick you're about to fuck was just creampied moments before? That's an odd thing to think and say....
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Perfect point @ NOBLE the last thing you wanna do during a three some is suck another dudes cum out her box, sick right? Well its a chance you taking
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The real question is...why would you be sucking another dudes cum out of her box? Are you under the assumption the chick you're about to fuck was just creampied moments before? That's an odd thing to think and say....
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Looks like bnas is dtf @ Manhattan maybe ask your girl I mean he already wants a to ride your dick
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Looks like bnas is dtf @ Manhattan maybe ask your girl I mean he already wants a to ride your dick
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If you talk about exclusivity a month in I doubt she's going to go with it. I'm perfectly fine with relationships like this, but people are different. If it bothers you stop it now or it will just fester, but if you're alright with it let it ride because this type of arrangement could lead to some dope shit. It takes a certain type of person to be in relationships like that, telling her to stop a month in probably won't resonate well.
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If you talk about exclusivity a month in I doubt she's going to go with it. I'm perfectly fine with relationships like this, but people are different. If it bothers you stop it now or it will just fester, but if you're alright with it let it ride because this type of arrangement could lead to some dope shit. It takes a certain type of person to be in relationships like that, telling her to stop a month in probably won't resonate well.
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Like @ NOBLE said, you just never no, how do you no his girlfriends girlfriend didn't just get fucked, then hes about to have a threesome with his girlfriend and the other girl, don't turn what I say into some gay shit like Final Words known to do[
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I highly doubt Noble meant that he was worried about "sucking another dudes cum out of her box". You said it not me...The real question is why are you sucking stuff out of her box?? Just sayinggggg it's highly unlikely the other girl just fucked some dude who happened to creampie in her minutes before you're about to eat her out.
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Like @ NOBLE said, you just never no, how do you no his girlfriends girlfriend didn't just get fucked, then hes about to have a threesome with his girlfriend and the other girl, don't turn what I say into some gay shit like Final Words known to do[
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I highly doubt Noble meant that he was worried about "sucking another dudes cum out of her box". You said it not me...The real question is why are you sucking stuff out of her box?? Just sayinggggg it's highly unlikely the other girl just fucked some dude who happened to creampie in her minutes before you're about to eat her out.
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