I think it's very easy for men to comment on it either way. If a woman get's pregnant from a drunken mistake, yes that's her own fault but a baby shouldn't be seen as a punishment for a mistake. The man in that situation would never have to feel anything, he'd just go home and high five his friends that he got laid.
But seriously most women wouldn't know how they felt about it until it happened. Some people might be convinced that they'd get rid of it because it's never happened to them, but if it did happen they might not be able to.. i've seen that happen. And I've also seen people who don't agree with abortion end up getting an abortion because of their current situation.
I think our lives get restricted enough without people telling women that they have to have a child.
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And Dave I agree with your comment about the father rights too. If a girl aborts a child that the guy wants then that isn't fair at all. But as far as the physical thing, it's not just that, it's not 9 months of things being shit.. it's what the woman could have been doing in those 9 months to build her planned future, and the fact they're never going to be able to have the same life again, when 9 out of 10 times the man's life doesn't really change at all. He will still continue on his career path and MOST OF THE TIME (yes i understand there's exceptions to everything) it's the woman who gives her life up to raise a child.
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