Having a bisexual girlfriend.
 

So, my girl is bisexual. We've been together for about a month, or so, and she has a girlfriend as well. But, I suppose I'm a bit torn by this. There are positives, of course, I don't have to spend as much time with her, I don't have to be emotionally available. Things like that. But, there are also cons. It hinders her sex drive a bit, exclusivity is less likely. So, I wondered how you guys would handle this situation? Would you let her relationship with her own girlfriend ride, or, would you request a decision regarding exclusivity in the relationship with her yourself?

INB4 ask for a threesome.

I believe in sexual exclusivity. The idea that you might be able to get a three-some out of the deal later down the line is fanciful, but realistically, it increases your chances of getting an STI when your partner is fucking other people besides you. Who knows who her girlfriend is also fucking? I believe in keeping things simple.

Yea id let it ride cause threesomes and its like having two girl friends everyone wins!

It doesn't necessarily mean you have two girlfriends. What if her girlfriend isn't attracted to you or only likes girls or you aren't attracted to her cause maybe she's a butch? So this girl is fucking you and her girlfriend on the side, the girlfriend might be fucking other dudes and whatever diseases she gets from them, she'll pass it on to your girlfriend who will pass it on to you. I don't see how this scenario is much different from having a girlfriend who has other boyfriends. Like I said, the idea of banging two chicks is nice, but for me, the idea of sexual exclusivity where you cut out the potential of contracting third-party diseases is even nicer.

Agreed with this. The fact that you don't know who her gf is fucking would be my biggest concern here. My question though @Rant is are you dating your girl because she's bisexual or because you actually like her? Does her being bisexual have anything to do w/ you dating her? There's a big difference here

The real question is...why would you be sucking another dudes cum out of her box? Are you under the assumption the chick you're about to fuck was just creampied moments before? That's an odd thing to think and say....

Looks like bnas is dtf @Manhattan maybe ask your girl I mean he already wants a to ride your dick

If you talk about exclusivity a month in I doubt she's going to go with it. I'm perfectly fine with relationships like this, but people are different. If it bothers you stop it now or it will just fester, but if you're alright with it let it ride because this type of arrangement could lead to some dope shit. It takes a certain type of person to be in relationships like that, telling her to stop a month in probably won't resonate well.

I highly doubt Noble meant that he was worried about "sucking another dudes cum out of her box". You said it not me...The real question is why are you sucking stuff out of her box?? Just sayinggggg it's highly unlikely the other girl just fucked some dude who happened to creampie in her minutes before you're about to eat her out.

Better than Trans-sexual.

I do like my girl. Her being bisexual is irrelevant to me.

Also, for clarification for everyone else, her girlfriend is a lesbian.

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I say a month, but, we've been dating since August 20th. We go out 2-3 times a week. But, no, it doesn't especially bother me.

Edit: I also didn't mean bringing up exclusive dating this early, but, rather when it was appropriate.

Barzilla confirmed cuckold

^This... Firstly she should be the one begging you to be exclusive to her. The tables are turned here and not in a way that is going to benefit you. if you have to ask her to be exclusive, chances are she isn't going to listen because she likes to have her box licked by females... You asking is only going to cause her to A. Hide it from you B. Leave you ... You knew what you were getting into from the jump brah... If you are feeling some type of way, the best thing is to leave her now before you get too attached.... Also the fact that you're not smashing the girlfriend on the side speaks volumes. You two arent in a relationship.... She's using you for something... She is also openly cheating on you .. lol .. I'd fuck some other chick tbh man...

All I need is my girl.. I would choke a bitch if she even asked for a 3 some.. that's my pussy, those are my titties, that's my asshole that I beg to get inside all the time..

Yeah, because you should never be openly communicative with your partner. :S

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When did a discussion become begging? Also, in what way is this cheating, if it was discussed beforehand between her, and myself?

Edit:

> Doesn't sleep with lesbian.
> Must be being used.

lolwut?

Thats my point man... If you already discussed this beforehand, and she told you she was going to be with a woman as well as you (which is not a relationship), then turn around and say you're not okay with it or it bothers you... Nothings going to change... Talking to her is good, as you should communicate, (it will also make you feel better) but if you plan on asking a bisexual woman to change her ways for you, after she already laid the guidelines, you're asking to be lied to brah. If she does say she will stop talking to other women, chances are she won't, will lie to you about it, and you may or may not find out later down the road.. then what?

You have a few choices imo....

A. Leave it alone, being that you decided to get in the relationship in the first place knowing the stipulations.
B. Ask her to stop talking to her current girlfriend..risking being lied to... And ultimately cheated on (it will happen don't be delusional like some of these idiots in the world) the chick will lie to you in your face, meanwhile getting her pussy ate by another girl.
C. Break it off with the chick and find a woman that likes solely men, and have a real relationship, because at the end of the day, this is no relationship, and one of you are going to get hurt in the end. ez 100

Ok @Rant + GF x she is bisexual = :smh:

That in itself roe a chuckle out of me .. now lets talk turkey .. let her go she is not worth the headache you can always pay for a three some and feel better about not having to put much work into it

Again, where do you get this "She laid the guidelines" stuff?

Son I'm trying to help you... Don't get defensive. You didn't tell the whole story. Fig she laid the guidelines if you are feeling some type of way about the current arrangement?? No? Then what are you bitching about? lol

Did you fuck your girl?or is she droppin excuses not to?

And what do u want out of this girl?a fantasy/FTF or something more meaningful...

My girl, and I are sleeping together, yes.

Edit: Your second question is where in lies my confusion. I'm not certain what direction I'd like to take the relationship.

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> Corrects an assumption.

> Must be defensive.

letsbeef.com is one of the most collectively closed minded and unintelligent places on the internet.

So, being clear, concise, and openly stated in your relationships is a sign of trouble?

Who knew. :S

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To quote the great Blaise Pascal - "This place is worse than chatroulette."

Or was that the Numa Numa guy? Either way.

Literally fucking dead @ Blaise Pascal jesus christ

Everyone is different.

Some people in relationships think they own the person an that they are theres only, truth is they can leave u when ever they want they are not yours. Some people have real attraction for eachother an they will properly be happy an thats good maybe they will live together, make a family. Also every one I have ever gotten to know an talked to female or male has told me they have cheated on there partner at least once. I think a open relationship or what you are saying isn't that bad unless your some one who needs someone to lean on 24/7 it shouldn't bother you.

Like I said id let it ride.

If your girlfriend has a girlfriend, that's not your girlfriend.

Translation: He once talked to a lesbian woman.

If Her Girlfriend Is A Lesbian I'm Sure She Doesn't Like The Fact Said Girl Is Getting Rammed By This "Rant" Character She Keeps Hearing About. If You Think They're Not Talking About You, Think Again. Women Have A Tendency To Actually Talk To Other Women Regardless If They're Sleeping With Each Other Or Not.

Co-Sign With Jason Too. You're Sharing This Girl And It's Only Been A Month, Things Can Only Go Downhill. Not Every Tri-Relationship Is Going To Be Like "Savages" Cause That Was A Movie.